Lent 3 (Purple)
Introduction
We often hear people tell us of how dysfunctional family life is these days.
Well it is, but of course it always has been. There has never been a time
when everything in family life was perfect. How often have I spoken with
families coming to terms with things which went on years ago, such as when a
woman is told that her older sister is really her mother and her parents are
really grandparents. And in the past it is frightening just how much abuse
took place in the home and nobody was prepared to believe that it ever
happened.
People have always been the same, with wounded and broken lives, some people
are just better at pretending than others. It was one such poor broken woman
who Jesus met at the well in our Gospel reading today. She had loads of men
and broken relationships, no doubt she has the subject of gossip in the
village where she lived. Perhaps Jesus had heard the gossip, anyway he knew
her life was in a mess and he wasn't afraid to help.
Jesus was not critical of the woman, not self righteous or preachy, instead
he offered her living water, hope of a new start and refreshment for her
weary soul. We don't know what happened to the woman afterwards but she went
and started spreading the word about Jesus. For once here was a man in her
life who was really worth talking about.
Opening Verse of Scripture
Psalm 95:6
Come, let us bow down in worship, let us kneel before the LORD our Maker;
for he is our God and we are the people of his pasture, the flock under his
care.
Collect Prayer for the Day — Before we read we pray
Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but first he
suffered pain, and entered not into glory before He was crucified:
mercifully grant that we, walking in the way of the cross, may find it none
other than the way of life and peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our
Lord, who is alive and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one
God, now and for ever. Amen Common Worship
Eternal God, give us insight to discern your will for us, to give up what
harms us, and to seek the perfections we are promised in Jesus Christ our
Lord. Common Worship Shorter Collect
Almighty God, you see that we have no power of ourselves to help
ourselves. Keep us both outwardly in our bodies and inwardly in our souls,
that we may be defended from all adversities which may happen to the body,
and from all eveil thoughts which may assault the soul; through Jesus Christ
our Lord. Amen. Methodist Worship
First Bible Reading Exodus 17: 1-7
The whole Israelite community set out from the Desert of Sin, travelling
from place to place as the LORD commanded. They camped at Rephidim, but
there was no water for the people to drink. So they quarrelled with Moses
and said, "Give us water to drink." Moses replied, "Why do you quarrel with
me? Why do you put the LORD to the test?" But the people were thirsty for
water there, and they grumbled against Moses. They said, "Why did you bring
us up out of Egypt to make us and our children and livestock die of thirst?"
Then Moses cried out to the LORD , "What am I to do with these people? They
are almost ready to stone me." The LORD answered Moses, "Walk on ahead of
the people. Take with you some of the elders of Israel and take in your hand
the staff with which you struck the Nile, and go. I will stand there before
you by the rock at Horeb. Strike the rock, and water will come out of it for
the people to drink." So Moses did this in the sight of the elders of
Israel. And he called the place Massah and Meribah because the Israelites
quarrelled and because they tested the LORD saying, "Is the LORD among us or
not?"
Second Reading Romans 5:1-11
Therefore, since we have been justified through faith, we have peace with
God through our Lord Jesus Christ, through whom we have gained access by
faith into this grace in which we now stand. And we rejoice in the hope of
the glory of God. Not only so, but we also rejoice in our sufferings,
because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance,
character; and character, hope. And hope does not disappoint us, because God
has poured out his love into our hearts by the Holy Spirit, whom he has
given us. You see, at just the right time, when we were still powerless,
Christ died for the ungodly. Very rarely will anyone die for a righteous
man, though for a good man someone might possibly dare to die. But God
demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners,
Christ died for us. Since we have now been justified by his blood, how much
more shall we be saved from God's wrath through him! For if, when we were
God's enemies, we were reconciled to him through the death of his Son, how
much more, having been reconciled, shall we be saved through his life! Not
only is this so, but we also rejoice in God through our Lord Jesus Christ,
through whom we have now received reconciliation.
Gospel Reading
John 4:5 - 42
So he came to a town in Samaria called Sychar, near the plot of ground
Jacob had given to his son Joseph. Jacob's well was there, and Jesus, tired
as he was from the journey, sat down by the well. It was about the sixth
hour. When a Samaritan woman came to draw water, Jesus said to her, "Will
you give me a drink?" (His disciples had gone into the town to buy food.)
The Samaritan woman said to him, "You are a Jew and I am a Samaritan woman.
How can you ask me for a drink?" (For Jews do not associate with
Samaritans.) Jesus answered her, "If you knew the gift of God and who it is
that asks you for a drink, you would have asked him and he would have given
you living water."" Sir," the woman said, "you have nothing to draw with and
the well is deep. Where can you get this living water? Are you greater than
our father Jacob, who gave us the well and drank from it himself, as did
also his sons and his flocks and herds?"
Jesus answered, "Everyone who drinks this water will be thirsty again,
but whoever drinks the water I give him will never thirst. Indeed, the water
I give him will become in him a spring of water welling up to eternal life."
The woman said to him, "Sir, give me this water so that I won't get thirsty
and have to keep coming here to draw water." He told her, "Go, call your
husband and come back." "I have no husband," she replied. Jesus said to her,
"You are right when you say you have no husband. The fact is, you have had
five husbands, and the man you now have is not your husband. What you have
just said is quite true." "Sir," the woman said, "I can see that you are a
prophet. Our fathers worshiped on this mountain, but you Jews claim that the
place where we must worship is in Jerusalem." Jesus declared, "Believe me,
woman, a time is coming when you will worship the Father neither on this
mountain nor in Jerusalem. You Samaritans worship what you do not know; we
worship what we do know, for salvation is from the Jews. Yet a time is
coming and has now come when the true worshipers will worship the Father in
spirit and truth, for they are the kind of worshipers the Father seeks. God
is spirit, and his worshipers must worship in spirit and in truth." The
woman said, "I know that Messiah" (called Christ) "is coming. When he comes,
he will explain everything to us." Then Jesus declared, "I who speak to you
am he."
Just then his disciples returned and were surprised to find him talking
with a woman. But no one asked, "What do you want?" or "Why are you talking
with her?" Then, leaving her water jar, the woman went back to the town and
said to the people, "Come, see a man who told me everything I ever did.
Could this be the Christ?" They came out of the town and made their way
toward him. Meanwhile his disciples urged him, "Rabbi, eat something."
But he said to them, "I have food to eat that you know nothing about." Then
his disciples said to each other, "Could someone have brought him food?" "My
food," said Jesus, "is to do the will of him who sent me and to finish his
work. Do you not say, 'Four months more and then the harvest'? I tell you,
open your eyes and look at the fields! They are ripe for harvest. Even now
the reaper draws his wages, even now he harvests the crop for eternal life,
so that the sower and the reaper may be glad together. Thus the saying 'One
sows and another reaps' is true. I sent you to reap what you have not worked
for. Others have done the hard work, and you have reaped the benefits of
their labour." Many of the Samaritans from that town believed in him because
of the woman's testimony, "He told me everything I ever did." So when the
Samaritans came to him, they urged him to stay with them, and he stayed two
days. And because of his words many more became believers. They said to the
woman, "We no longer believe just because of what you said; now we have
heard for ourselves, and we know that this man really is the Saviour of the
world." (Reader: This is the Gospel of Christ - Praise to Christ our Lord)
Post Communion Prayer
Merciful Lord, grant
your people grace to withstand the temptations of the world, the flesh and
the devil, and with pure hearts and minds to follow you, the only God;
through Jesus Christ our Lord.
Amen

We know that the Jews from Jerusalem despised the Jews from
Samaria. They told stories about how the Samaritan Jews were racially
impure, that they came from inter marriage with foreigners. That some Jews
did not get on well with other Jews should not surprise us, the history of
the tribes of Judaism, the Northern and Southern Kingdom of Judaism, is all
one of conflict and falling out. At the time of Jesus there was a continuing
hatred between these two distinctly Jewish groups. The Samaritan people
still survive to this day, preserving their ancient religious rites near the
ancient site of Shechem, and the modern city of Nablus.
The Samaritans are Jews, who regard the Pentateuch and observe the Sabbath
strictly. They claim Mount Gerazim as their holy mountain because it is
mentioned in the Pentateuch. (Deut 11:29, 27:12). They regard Jerusalem as
less significant because it was a later development from the time of King
David who wanted to establish his kingdom there. Much of what we know about
the Samaritans comes from later Jewish writings which tell us that the
Samaritans were descended from interracial relations with foreigners who
repopulated this part of the Northern Kingdom after the Assyrian invasion.
This is probably not a fair representation, but it gives us an idea of the
bitterness which characterised their relations. Other Jews held them in
contempt, clearly considering themselves to be better.
It is against this background of conflict that we have the longest discourse
in the whole of the Book of John, between Jesus, a Jewish Rabbi, and
somebody from another Jewish groups that he was supposed to despise. The
writer of the Gospel must clearly attach some importance to this episode and
he wants us to know that it is important, it has a fundamental role in
helping us to understand Jesus and his ministry.
We know that the woman was Samaritan and the history of these two groups was
such that it was unlikely that Jesus would have anything to do with her. The
fact that the Samaritan was a woman didn’t help either, this is why the
woman asks, "how can you, a Jew, ask a drink of me, a woman of Samaria?" For
a man to speak with a woman in this way was extraordinary, men just didn’t
speak with women in this way. But there is more, not only was this a
Samaritan, and a woman, this woman had another distinguishing feature which
made her an unlikely subject for Jesus to have a meeting. We are also told
that she had five husbands!
It is helpful for us to remember some of the other details of this story. We
are told that the time of the day was noon. It was in the heat of the day,
and the last time that most women would have wanted to do the heavy lifting
and hard walk back to the village involved in getting water from the well.
The other women went early in the morning or in the cool of the evening,
when the work wouldn't be quite as hard, and the drudgery of hauling water
would be broken by the fellowship shared by the women around the well. A
woman who chose instead to go to the well at noon must have been seeking
specifically to avoid that company. It is apparent that this woman was an
outcast - even among Samaritans.
I would guess that she was used to whispering in the village wherever she
went, having been used and discarded by so many men of the village, and in a
culture in which there was little if any privacy, and gossip spread news
quickly. As oppressive as the noonday sun is, it doesn't burn like the
stares of the others in the village. So she goes to the well at noon, when
she can be sure to be alone.
So we see Jesus meeting a woman who simply could not have been much more of
an outsider. She belonged to a group which was despised and she was despised
by that group!
It is interesting that we do not know the name of the woman. We have a huge
discourse but no name. Perhaps that is helpful, for in so many ways the
exchange of words is not just a personal encounter between Jesus and the
Samaritan, the words which Jesus speaks are for all people. The woman is in
a solitary place, she has little to make herself feel proud, little to help
her see herself of value. Yet in her meeting with Jesus, She comes as a
person outside society, and Jesus shows her that she is inside God’s love.
Jesus knows what this woman is like, there are no secrets, Jesus is able to
look deep inside her heart, as he looks inside the hearts of all of us.
Jesus looks and is able to see the things which everybody in the village has
gossiped about. Jesus does not criticise or condemn. Where others look with
the eyes of condemnation and see sin, Jesus looks with the eyes of
compassion and recognises the value of this woman as a child of God. Jesus
is not put off by her sin because he knows that there is more grace in God
than there is sin in us. Charles Royden
Water
crops up in the Gospel of John many times. Water turned into wine, water
used to wash the disciple’s feet, water in which Jesus is baptised, water on
which Jesus walks. In today’s Gospel passage Jesus offers living water to
all those who come to Him to drink. Indeed, Jesus’ final post-resurrection
appearance is by water where He challenges His disciples to cast their empty
net in the water on the other side of the boat. Some of the disciples were
fisherman and understood the dangers and possibilities of water. Water was a
symbol of chaos and yet also the source of sustenance and survival, a
metaphor for life and death and the transformation that takes place between
them. When we look at the story of the Wedding at Cana we see Jesus
transforming the water into wine. A simple story, quietly told, almost
low-key, reflecting the simple, inexplicable, transformation that was
witnessed. That same, mysterious, power of transformation is featured in
many of the following stories in John, often with increasing drama. The
Woman at the Well passage from today’s readings is one of those stories
where water and transformation are inextricably linked. It’s that same
transforming power of God that we experience in our lives as we live out the
final act of divine transformation. The transformation that is the reality
of the Lent and Easter story, the transformation of the crucifixion of Jesus
into His glorious resurrection and our eternal inheritance.
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Lord of Creation 440 Mission Praise (Tune
Slane)
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Father I place into your hands
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Born by the Holy Spirit's Breath 61 Mission
Praise (Tune Fulda)
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Restore O Lord 579 Mission Praise
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Lord of the Church 442 Mission Praise
Eternal God, give us insight to discern your will for us, to give up what
harms us, and to seek the perfection we are promised in Jesus Christ our
Lord. Amen
We pray that in all our relationships you will make us effective channels of
your love and forgiveness. Make us awash with your living water so that our
home and places of work, our conversations and our actions, are always in
touch with the renewing power of God. Amen
We stand alongside all those who are suffering, whether in body, mind or
spirit, and long for your healing and comfort, your strength for
perseverance and your patience in dark times; we long for your living spirit
to envelop and sustain them. Amen
(Prayers of Intercession for Common Worship, Susan Sayers)
Christ give you the grace to grow in holiness, to deny yourselves, take up
your cross, and follow Him; and the blessing of God Almighty, the Father,
the Son, and the Holy Spirit, be among you and remain with you always. Amen
Additional Material
Opening Verse of Scripture—Psalm 51:17
The sacrifice of God is a broken spirit: a broken and contrite heart He will
not despise.
Commentary
Who are you?
By telling the woman at the well who she is, Jesus shows her who He is. By
confirming her true identity, He reveals his own, and that is how it still
happens. The Messiah is the one who shows us who we are by showing us who He
is, even if He has to cross boundaries and break a few rules to do so. He
challenges us to drop our disguises and to meet with Him where we are. And
in acknowledging who He is, we have no choice but to acknowledge who we are,
perhaps in a moment of full disclosure which can be as painful as it can be
healing.
In the Gospel reading today we have Jesus' longest-recorded conversation in
the Bible, and to cap it all it's with a Samaritan woman. On many counts it
seems extraordinary that it took place at all: a man and a woman in public;
a Jew and a Samaritan; a transient and a citizen; one offering living water
and another caught in the ceaseless rounds of drawing water at the well. It
would seem bizarre to many at the time. But true dialogue with God
transcends sex, race, and tradition because His love cuts across racial and
cultural prejudice. Today’s Gospel has many levels of meaning. As always in
John the central character is God and God’s gift of life through the
invitation to live in the holy space of the Father’s love. A love which we
see affirms women and engages and loves sinners. In what was a man’s world,
John describes a woman as the supreme example of someone stepping out and
exercising ministry, but doing so with the fragility and hesitancy and
perhaps inadequacy which happens when ordinary human beings (of both sexes)
begin to engage in ministry. An image of someone who, being transformed is
prepared to step out in faith, so that others may experience God’s
transforming love. Sam Cappleman
Communicating with the Real Power
In the gospel reading today we have Jesus' longest-recorded conversation
with in the Bible, and to cap it all it's with a Samaritan woman. On many
counts it seems extraordinary that it took place at all: a man and a woman
in public; a Jew and a Samaritan; a transient and a citizen; one offering
living water and another caught in the ceaseless rounds of drawing water at
the well. It would seem bizarre to many at the time. But true dialogue with
God transcends sex, race, tradition, and place and liturgy.
Jacob's Well, where the conversation takes place, was dug by Jacob some 2000
years before Jesus met with the Samaritan woman. Jesus has returned to the
source of His own history and has a conversation with the woman that breaks
into three parts around her history, a conversation about herself, about her
relationship with her husband, and about true worship. He offers her the
opportunity to take hold of His truth in her life so that she may know the
power of the Spirit of God in her life, whatever her history or background.
He make plain that this truth will only become a reality when she shares it
with others, otherwise it will become stagnant. It becomes real when it is
experienced, not when its just discussed. The first part of the conversation
is about the power of the Spirit, the second is about truth. The final part
is about communication with God, through which we experience the power and
truth of God in our lives.
Just as at the wedding in Cana, just as through His conversation with
Nicodemus, Jesus demonstrates that true, real and inner transformation can
only ever come through faith in Him. The conversation starts by the source
of the old life, Jacob's Well, and ends by inviting the woman to tap into
the source of the new.
Meditation
The story of Jesus and the Samaritan woman turns out to be a
love story after all, for only one who loved you knows you as you are and
not as you pretend to be. Only one who loves you knows your deepest desires.
Only one who loves you can look at your past without blinking. Richard
Lischer
Hymns (Mission Praise)
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Praise my soul (560)
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Colours of day (on service sheet)
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For the beauty of the earth (152)
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I'm feeding on the living bread (on service sheet)
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How great thou art (506)
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In Christ there is no East or West, 329;
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For I’m building a people of power, 151;
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Praise my soul, 560;
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I come with joy to meet my Lord
Prayers for Sunday and the week ahead.
Father, wherever the church is dry and parched may the water of
your Spirit well up to refresh and renew, to bring life and strong new growth.
Make us more aware of our thirst for you, so that we come to you ready and eager
to receive your living water. Amen
We pray that in all our relationships you will make us effective channels of
your love and forgiveness. Make us awash with your living water so that our home
and places of work, our shopping and our leisure centres, our conversations and
our actions, are always in touch with the renewing power of God. Amen
We stand alongside all those who are suffering, whether in body,
mind or spirit, and long for your healing and comfort, your strength for
perseverance and your patience in dark times; we long for your living spirit to
envelop and sustain them. Amen (Prayers of Intercession for Common Worship,
Susan Sayers)
Christ give you the grace to grow in holiness, to deny
yourselves, take up your cross, and follow Him; and the blessing of God
Almighty, the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit, be among you and remain with
you always. Amen
Sermon:
The woman at the well (Acrobat
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